My Tips and
Contacting other swingers online
1) Regarding Instant Messages and Email...when
contacting someone online for the first time, don't be aggressive right
off the bat... Don't start off your letter or message with "I want to f***
your p**** and have you s*** me while I shove my finger up your a** and my
c*** is this long"! First of all, you don't know the person well enough to
talk like that and most who take that approach either get the IGNORE
button or their letter is clicked to the trash immediately! Be a gentleman
and use common sense. Introduce yourself, describe yourself, ask polite
questions, and see where it leads... You wouldn't walk up to a woman on
the street and talk trash, so don't do it online.
2) Photos help garner a response from others, but one common mistake a lot
of men make is just sending shots of their manhood...BO-RING! It doesn't
give the lady a correct idea of what you look like... If you want to
protect your privacy, take a body shot with your face blanked out or wear
sunglasses or a hat. Just don't send a penis pose, women get them all the
time and its not as impressive as you think! We want to see as much of you
as possible, even if you are fully clothed... This also applies to women,
show more then a body part and you will get a better response from others.
3) Privacy and discretion is VERY IMPORTANT and should be respected by
all. To keep your email discreet, establish a free anonymous mail address
(like Yahoo or Hotmail). Don't give away any personal info. If you attend
a sexual party and you learn someone's online handle or real name, DON'T
SHARE IT ONLINE WITH OTHERS!!!! THIS IS A SERIOUS BREACH OF TRUST AND
RESPECT THAT COULD LEAD TO PROBLEMS!!! Ask permission about posting
whatever info you want first... Most like to be discreet and don't want to
be barraged by tons of unwanted mail and instant msgs from strangers.
Respect and common sense should be easy folks.... Don't do anything that
could endanger the privacy of others, or cause them unnecessary grief...
We all want to party, but we want to feel safe doing it. A privacy breach
could have a million unwanted consequences.
This applies to those who are both partially and fully
shaved... To keep it looking smooth and free of red bumps,
be diligent about shaving everyday! Day old stubble isn't
sexy and scratches during sex or oral. Shaving daily helps
your body to stay used to to hair being removed. I recommend
a good men's razor (they shave closer) like the ones with
removable blades (like MACH 3). Shaving cream is better then
soap too, as soap becomes slippery and the blade wont pick
up the hair. Do not shave directly before sex, as this is
what causes the red bumps... When you shave, you open up
pores and friction will cause the redness! Wait an hour
before sex or an activity that has to do with touching the
area (this also holds true to exotic dancers who do lap
dancing). After you shave, apply an ointment like Neosporin
to the area to help seal the pores against infection and
irritation. If you don't have Neosporin, here is an
old dancer trick....apply stick anti- perspirant...thats
right...it works...and you wont get those red bumps.
during your period
This is a sensitive subject...what to
do if you want to have sex but its that time of the month and you don't
want to make a mess. I am going to share a secret I was told by other porn
actresses who were faced with that dilemma when filming. Go to a crafts
store, pick up a mass of sea sponge (home depot carries them... People use
them a lot for painting), break off a medium sized portion, boil to
sterilize and soften, then drain away excess water and insert. Viola! No
mess! Don't worry, you will be able to get it out later... Sponges are
very absorbent and will soak up mass amounts of liquid. When the sex is
over, just remove and throw away.
Many people are attracted to the idea
of extending their playtime to a adult theatre setting. The prospect of
anonymous sex is a fantasy for both sexes. I strongly advise against ANY
female going alone into a theatre, especially late at night to play (it is
like tossing a rabbit to a den of hungry wolves!). Always go with an
escort of some kind (contact
the Tampa Bukkake Crew)! That way while you play, someone can keep a
lookout for you and keep the overly aggressive men at bay. Men, if you
bring your wives or female friends, it is important that you stay alert at
all times while the female is playing. Be her security guard! If someone
gets out of line, reprimand them immediately and make them back off.
Before playing in a theatre setting, investigate as many as possible to
see which one suits your standards...is the theatre clean? nice seating?
couple friendly? What kinds of people do you encounter there? The
investigating will be well worth it later when you play. For the ladies
who play, please keep in mind that at all times YOU are in control! Do not
afraid to assert yourself. If someone approaches you or touches you in a
way you don't want, tell them so! It is your body and you shouldn't have
to tolerate any unpleasantries for the sake of wanting fun. Don't be
afraid to voice the rules of the game upfront if approached by anyone...
It actually helps them to know what is allowed and what isn't and saves
you from having to become offended.
For the men who play: If you happen to
be in a theatre at a time that a couple enters and starts to play, be
courteous and aware that playing with a couple is a privilege, not a
right! Be a gentleman and polite. Use a no pressure approach. Slow and
easy, ask before you touch what isnt yours. Use protection with anyone you
meet and refrain from playing with those that don't use protection (the
hand for a minute is better then AIDS the rest of your life). If others
around the lady start to get pushy or aggressive, speak in her defense!
Once the play is over, Thank the couple for allowing you to play... This
will encourage them to come back (or get your number for private play
Phoenixxx's guidelines on Theater play
What I did and how it
I used to go to theatres and this is
how it was... I would go in with my boyfriend, we would find a seat in the
dark theater and then he would get up to go buy a coke. By the time he got
back, I would be surrounded by men! I would then politely tell the men
what was allowed. Have them line up, and if they didn't have protection,
to go get it, or else no play. One by one everyone was satisfied... If
someone got pushy, I would tell them to get in the back of the line as
punishment and cool off. If someone was satisfied and wanted to go for
round 2, they would have to get in line again, that way at least everyone
got one chance, and no one was allowed to hog all the action for long
periods of time. If I encountered a fellow that I could physically tell
was not going to be able to finish, I would ask that fellow after 10
minutes to take a break and start on someone else. That way it kept the
flow going and his ego wouldn't be bruised by his lack of performance...
It saved face! I used the number of men around me as security, they would
back me up if someone got rude! By the way, if the lady you are playing
with is doing oral on you, a flavored condom is always a huge plus...and
NEVER put on a condom that is coated in spermicide for her to do oral play
(tastes AWFUL and it makes your mouth numb)! Condoms with special tips
aren't too great either (almost trigger your gag reflex). Cumming in a
ladies hair is pretty rude (unless she says it's ok, don't do it) Drunks,
people on drugs, or those that I could tell were unwashed were those in
the theatre that I avoided, so keep that in mind. Being clean and sober is
essential. Theatres are always busiest at late hours, especially on the
weekends. If you don't want the potential of a feeding frenzy, or just
want too ease into things slowly, go during the day or early night during
the week. Things to take inside the theatre: hair scrunchy, condoms, a wet
rag in a plastic bag (clean-up), lube and baby wipes for clean up!
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